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The semi-arranged Marriages!

 The semi-arranged Marriages in India

She first met him in the English class in 1994. Not sure what it was, but there was something about him that made her skip a beat. May be it was that young foolish age of daydreaming, but she started to add him into her dreams……
Eventually, they became friends, good friends. Not many family members knew about him except her nosy aunt. Luckily for her, the aunt loved to be a matchmaker, and she took it from there on….
The families from both sides were very pleased with the aunt for finding them a great match….The rest is history.. This semi-arranged marriage…
The change is a part of the slow but ever-progressing ways of life. Based on the demands of the time, the culture and customs evolve; the traditions change. Similarly with time, the marriage concept has become much more relaxed and less rigid. The new way of life and modern thinking have naturally affected the way marriages are initiated. There is more transparency between the families and the potential couples; the restrictions of old days are fading – slowly but steadily. Read the rest of this entry »

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The Arranged Marriage!

The Arranged Marriages In India!

It was early 1950s; he had barely settled in the new India after the 1947 partition and the independence from British Empire. The family and friends were preparing for weeks for this upcoming special occasion.
On one early spring day, he decorated his bullock carts and headed over to a small village a few miles away to get married. His company included his father, close family members and many friends.
The wedding ceremony – the religious rite – was arranged at the bride’s home. The afternoon feast was hosted in a haveli – an open air living area enclosed with tall brick walls….
By the late afternoon, the groom and his company were heading back to his village, this time two more passengers on his cart – his newly acquired wife and her family’s maid. During the entire wedding ceremony and the ride back to her new home, she had her face covered with an expensive hand-made shawl that was a part of the dowry she brought with her. He had not seen her face so far but his secret investigation through common family friends had confirmed a long time ago that she was very pretty. Read the rest of this entry »

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