Eat, Pray, Love – Julia Roberts in India

‘Eat, Pray, Love’ – Actress Julia Roberts in North India for a Hollywood movie shoot!

“Life’s like a play: it’s not the length, but the excellence of the acting that matters.”~Lucius Annaeus Seneca

We all know our favorite Indian mantra – Khao, Pio, aish karo! -Eat, drink, Enjoy life. And, now listen to this:
Superstar Julia Roberts has been in North India lately shooting for a Hollywood movie ‘Eat, Pray, Love’.
It seems as if they took our desi slogan above and twisted it.

Well, may be not the same slogan, but close! :)

Actually, the movie and the title is based on Elizabeth Gilbert’s best-selling memoir. The book – ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ – is about her travels through Italy (Eating), India (Praying) and Indonesia (and love ) in search of personal restoration. It is an interesting and brave journey; she leaves behind everything, including her marriage, and ventures on a journey of self-discovery, looking for a balance in her life after the divorce followed by a failed love affair. Sounds movie material :) !

Julia Roberts, the Academy award winning actress kicked off the shooting for the Indian portion of the movie in a Hindu style, with a ‘hawan’ -the ritual with fire, prayer and the whole nine yard…
While little kids climbed the trees and rooftops, she filmed for the movie all over the places including in a small village in North India. It is a safe guess that there were lots of ‘praying’. The author, as per the memoir, spends many months in an Indian Ashram (religious hermitage) cleaning the floors and praying – searching for spirituality. Continue reading

15 Tips on how to make a lasting first impression

“It is only shallow people who do not judge by appearances” ~Oscar Wilde

The first impression is what others perceive or think of you as soon as they first see you. The first impression matters; it is part of human nature to judge a book by its cover.
So, what can you do to leave a good and lasting first impression? Here are a few tips:
1. Be punctual: Be on time, always. Let the other person or other party know if you will be running late. Making others wait is considered rude, and it leaves a bad first impression!
2. Appearance and Dress code: Dress the way you want to present yourself for a given occasion. Your appearance – head to toe – matters. It includes the dress, the hair, the body-language…
3. Introduce yourself: Introduce yourself first, shake hand warmly. A hug is okay if you are sure that the other person won’t mind, or if it is a part of the culture or tradition. Continue reading

The overseas culture shock

Culture shock for new immigrants abroad

“The wise adapt themselves to circumstances, as water moulds itself to the pitcher” ~Chinese Proverbs

The culture shock is the feeling of anxiety and emotional discomfort that an immigrant suffers when moving to another country or another place with very different culture, customs and social environment.

No matter how open minded we are, it is hard to ignore the differences around us when we first venture out to an overseas place. Be it as a student or as an immigrant, the vast difference in culture and customs is a part of the new encounters, and the early experiences in a new land.

The surroundings and the social settings of the new country are always dramatically different for a newcomer. Everything that was once taken for granted in home country is up for recalibration: the language, the accent, the skin color, the dress code,…. Everything is new; everything is different. The phone works differently; the food is not the same, the traffic laws are confusing…

All of a sudden, our own way of life, our own way of speaking and our own customs become a foreign concept in the new land. This radical change and the sudden differences everywhere in the new country is what we call the culture shock.

This culture shock basically comes from the significant differences in the cultural and social settings as one migrates from one place to another. These resulting effects of all this could include anxiety, confusion, lack of direction, the feeling of not knowing what to do, or how to do things in a new country…. Not knowing what is appropriate or inappropriate, what is accepted and not accepted etc. are the daily dilemmas.

Migrating to another country is an adventure that involves many ‘ups’ and ‘downs’ – the culture shock being one the very first ‘downs’. :(

The feelings and symptoms of culture shock: This mental and emotional phase of confusion from culture shock comes with many new feelings. Depending on the personal tolerance or attitude, the feelings may include: Continue reading

The Bollywood Love Story on Oprah Show

AishWarya Rai and Abhishek Bachchan’s appearance on Oprah Show

Aish and Abhi (Oprah.com)

Aish and Abhi (Oprah.com)

As mentioned earlier, Aishwarya Rai along with her hubby was in Chicago, the Windy City, for Oprah Winfrey show. The show featuring the couple – Aish and Abhishek Bachchan, was telecasted worldwide on Monday Sep. 28. It also included a live link to China, to the audience of Chen Lu Yu – the talk show host who is also known as the Chinese Oprah.

Here are the synopses of their introduction by Oprah:

“Ash and Abhi, as they’re known to their 5 billion fans around the globe, were Bollywood superstars long before they fell in love and got married in April 2007. Abhi, Ash’s leading man, was born into India’s film industry. Both of his parents are famous Bollywood actors, and over the years, he’s starred in more than 40 films.

After being crowned Miss World in 1994, Ash became Bollywood’s breakout star. Since then, this emerald-eyed actress has landed dozens of endorsement deals and starred in more than 40 movies. She reportedly earns more than $15 million per film….. “

When asked by Oprah about his marriage proposal to her, Abhi shared:

“I was filming in New York for a movie,” he says. “And I used to stand on the balcony of my hotel room and wish that, ‘One day, wouldn’t it be nice if I was together with her, married.’”

Years later, in New York City as a couple, they were there for the premiere of Guru…. Continue reading

10 Simple but useful life lessons from Gandhi

Simple but very useful tips from Gandhi’s life

It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err. ~ Mahatma Gandhi

Mahatma Gandhi

Mahatma Gandhi

Today is Mahatma Gandhi’s Birthday. On this day, here are a few simple things and life lessons that we can learn from his life:

1. Discipline in diet to control/lose weight: Looking for a way to maintain healthy weight? According to most of the studies done, the body weight is most dependent on our eating and dietary habits. Have a will-power to say no to the food, even the yummy ones! Find a cause and fast for it, like Gandhi did! May be not to the same extremes, but you got the idea, right? :)

2. Believe in the power of simple logic: Want to succeed in something? – Then work hard for it. Want to get something done? -Just do it! We complicate our lives for no reason. Keep it simple!

3. Be kind and caring: Don’t bully anybody; be kind to one and all. Don’t harm others – humans or animals; don’t hurt anyone’s feelings…. All this is also good for our own peace of mind, keeps everybody around us happy, and makes us more conscious as a human being. Continue reading