The misconceptions that your American/foreigner friends may have about India and Indians!

“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” ~Gandhi
I am delighted to run into more and more Americans who have so many good things to say about India. The younger generation in particular is very open-minded toward global outlook. However, from time to time, we do get some out-of-the-blue questions about India. Based on my personal experiences as well as the stories from friends and families, here are some of the common misconceptions or myths about India:
1. Elephants in our backyards: We don’t keep elephants as a pet. Here is an actual question from an elementary school student to an Indian teacher in US, “Do you used to ride an elephants to your school in India?”
2. Everybody snake-charmer: Not every Indian is a snake charmer. “Are those cobras poisonous?”, as if Indians are supposed to know everything about snakes.
3. The Indian Curry: Not every dish we eat is curry based. More and more Americans are trying and enjoying Indian food, but curry is invariably linked with India. An Indian restaurant manager always has interesting anecdotes to share about his experiences with American customers, like this one:
“Can I have some curry samosa please” asked the white customer when the waiter came around to take order.
“How would you like it – spicy or mild” The waiter asked without reacting to the choice of entree.
“Medium”, he replied.
The waiter came back with 2 Samosas and the chutney/sauce to dip in.
I guess Indian sauce is also considered curry for some.
4. India is next to Iran or Iraq: India is sometimes confused to be in the Middle East by many. I don’t think much of it, my geography is not that good either – about small European countries and their locations, or all of the African countries for that matter.
5. Too many Gods: We only have one God, probably the same God that rest of world has. His/her skin color is debatable, because many Indians prefer fair skin
6. The Bindi on the forehead is not tattoo:The ‘dot’ in on a women’s forehead is not a permanent tattoo. I heard this on a radio show where the host was trying to find out more about the tattoo that Indian women have on their foreheads. It took me a while to realize that he was talking about Bindi; also known as tikka or kumkum or sindoor….depending upon where you come from in India. It is a ladies’ make-up accesories with traditional roots and customs.
7. Child labor, arranged marriages and Bollywood…: Unlike all the common documentaries on TV channels overseas, there is more to India than child labor, arranged marriages and Bollywood.
8. The tigers: We do have tigers, but in the forests. I don’t get many questions about this, but tigers and lions are always linked to India and Africa.
9. Taxi-driver and computer engineering only?: These are not the only 2 occupations we excel in. Gas stations and motels are other businesses often linked to Indians overseas. During a fund raising event once, Hillary Clinton joked about Gandhi by saying, “He ran a gas station down in St. Louis.” She later apologized. The reality is that Indians are successful in every walk of life overseas, and growing very fast.
10. The cricket is not ‘cricket, the insect’: The game of Cricket is not popular in North America, so very few Americans know about it. “Is it just like baseball?” is the common inquiry. That is when I start to explain what a googly is.; here goes the rest of the day!
11. Indian ‘too’ traditional:Just because there are lots of ladies dressed in Saari or Punjabi suits in the mall and supermarkets, that does not mean we are very traditional. May be more traditional than American culture, but India is modernizing at a very fast pace. Just give us one more decade…
!
12. We don’t speak ‘Indian’: We speak many languages, may be too many, but none Indian. And, English with Indian accent does not count as ‘Indian’ either.
13. Hot and rainy: “Is it always hot there and doe it rain all the time?” Seems like many of them have seen Monsoon Wedding movie. weather in India is not much different from weather along the west coast or Midwest without snow. The variations in weather from region to region are just like we have in North America.
14. Every Indian is vegetarian:Not very popular myth anymore. The non-veg dishes in Indian restaurants sell like hot cakes these days.
15.Turban or chunary: These are not Muslim head-gears; these are just part of Indian traditional dress.
Related posts:
- Why white women find desi or Indian guys less attractive?
- Overseas perceptions about people from India
- Our Beliefs and the Outside World
- 30 tips on the art of small talk
- I am not racist, but my brain may be!
- Indian Beliefs or Perceptions of American and European Culture
.



#1 by Nalini P. on August 21, 2009 - 12:51 PM
Quote
lol Curry Samosa
love it.
#2 by Ramesh on August 21, 2009 - 12:56 PM
Quote
I think cricket is getting popular now.
#3 by admin on August 21, 2009 - 9:10 PM
Quote
Cricket is getting popular, but I think mainly in Indian communities…
Regards.
#4 by channibedi on August 26, 2009 - 8:54 PM
Quote
U missed on th Myths/misconceptions we Indians have about Americans….Do Red Indians have a lot in common with Indians? Are there still gun drawn street fights? R all Americans Hyppies and smoke “Charas”? Do they really Not have a family system? Do American parents dont bother about their kids once they have grown? Are they so self centered? My dear friends…these r what we see in movies….. about India n the West….so rather than giving explanations to each other, let us sit together, open our Laptops n search the entire world and be learnered rather show our ignorance and name it myths/misconceptions……our ancestors who migrated in early 60s and 70s didn’t have the media to express to masses. But we do!!!!! I can hear “Hindi-Amy” Bhai-Bhai already……. Chao.
#5 by admin on August 26, 2009 - 9:24 PM
Quote
you have a very good point there. Our movies do show a very limited, and somewhat negative side of other Western/American cultures, especially while comparing moral values….which is not the case.
.
Food for thought…probably will have separate post on myths about Americans from Indian point of view
Thanks for the sharing your thoughts.
#6 by Hobosic on September 2, 2009 - 4:44 AM
Quote
Super post, Need to mark it on Digg
#7 by gracie on September 12, 2009 - 3:17 AM
Quote
i went to india once. i really liked it and i want to go again and this time i want to get hanna on my hands. it sooo pretty.
#8 by dingo on October 29, 2009 - 10:55 AM
Quote
Tigers are not found in africa and i dont think anyone alludes to that, not even the americans!
Also why are you so apologetic about indians being too traditional? Indians are traditional becuase we have a culture, tradition and a heritage that predates anything american by a country mile and even european for that matter. Establishments here like to boast by writing “since ****” so its pretty obvious they are proud of traditon, its just they dont have as many going back far enough. When we have it why not flaunt it.
#9 by admin on October 29, 2009 - 11:06 AM
Quote
Yes the tigers are not in Africa…that’s why it says tigers and lions.
Don’t really get your comments about too traditional and being apologetic..
#10 by Jennifer on October 29, 2009 - 9:07 PM
Quote
When above it’s said to talk about desi misconceptions about America, it reminds me of when I moved to study in Chennai. My classmates asked me if I had a gun ‘back home’.
No!
And of course, everyone thought I was ‘rich’.
#11 by admin on October 30, 2009 - 6:49 AM
Quote
Thanks Jennifer. Must be interesting ‘reverse’ experience – going against the flow.
#12 by Ashley Alfred on November 14, 2009 - 11:33 PM
Quote
Good point jennifer. My friends thought i had divorced my husband, once when i returned alone from us to india.